fix: cache extract fails on invalid symlinks

[mzihlmann]

Fixes #3428

Description

Upon cache extraction, in case there is a broken symlink, both stat and mkdir will fail, resulting in cache extraction to fail.
Use lstat instead to not follow the broken symlink.

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